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Wedding Traditions That Capture the Heart

In a world where trends come and go, few ceremonies have remained as traditional and timeless as weddings. Marriage traditions stretch back thousands of years, and though they may vary by culture or creed, the concept of eternal commitment remains central.

Join us as we explore wedding customs in jewelry, ceremony and more.
 
Portrait of Mrs. Sarah Skinner by Hermann Dudley Murphy. Dated 1905. M.S. Rau, New Orleans (Sold).
 
Portrait of Mrs. Sarah Skinner by Hermann Dudley Murphy. Dated 1905. M.S. Rau, New Orleans (Sold).

 

Across the globe, weddings serve as significant milestones, uniting couples in a bond meant to endure the test of time; as a result, this important event brings with it traditions and customs from days past. In European wedding traditions, the classic white wedding dress became an enduring symbol of purity as seen in Murphy’s Portrait of Mrs. Sarah Skinner, above. In contrast, in many Asian countries, such as India, China and Japan, vibrant and intricately designed traditional attire holds great importance, with each element imbued with its own cultural significance. Furthermore, the role of family and community varies widely across different regions. In some cultures, wedding celebrations extend over several days, involving various ceremonies, feasts and performances, while in others, simplicity and intimacy take precedence.

 
King Dasaratha and His Retinue Proceed to Rama's Wedding, from the Shangri Ramayana series. At the Metropolitan Museum of Art. The tale says that King Dasaratha and his entourage brought bountiful stores of gemstones as gifts for the newlyweds.
 

 

King Dasaratha and His Retinue Proceed to Rama's Wedding, from the Shangri Ramayana series. At the Metropolitan Museum of Art. The tale says that King Dasaratha and his entourage brought bountiful stores of gemstones as gifts for the newlyweds.
 
The Marriage Ceremony by Suzuki Harunobu. Circa 1768. At the Metropolitan Museum of Art. Here, attendants aid a Japanese bride in undressing from her white silk wedding robes.
 

 

The Marriage Ceremony by Suzuki Harunobu. Circa 1768. At the Metropolitan Museum of Art. Here, attendants aid a Japanese bride in undressing from her white silk wedding robes.
 

Religious beliefs heavily influence wedding day plans, as evidenced by the variations between traditional Christian, Hindu, Muslim, Jewish and Buddhist ceremonies. These traditions are often accompanied by specific rituals, prayers and blessings that sanctify the union and invoke divine blessings for the couple's future together. In contrast, secular or civil weddings emphasize legal aspects, focusing on the legal contract between the partners. Each tradition imparts its own sense of reverence, reflecting the values and beliefs of the communities that share them.

 
Till Death Us Do Part by Edmund Blair Leighton. Dated 1878-1879. M.S. Rau, New Orleans (Sold).
 

 

Till Death Us Do Part by Edmund Blair Leighton. Dated 1878-1879. M.S. Rau, New Orleans (Sold).
 

Anthropologists and sociologists have long examined wedding and marriage traditions worldwide, as these customs often serve as expressions of identity. They forge a connection to one's cultural heritage and create a sense of belonging to a larger community through the relationship they are committing to for life. Marriages reinforce social bonds, strengthen familial ties and act as rites of passage, marking the transition from young adulthood to married life. The exchange of gifts and dowries in certain cultures demonstrates the intricate economic and social dynamics that underlie wedding ceremonies, reflecting broader societal structures. No matter the time or culture, whether wedding receptions are elaborate and opulent or simple and intimate, these customs and rituals celebrate love, unity and the timeless significance of matrimonial bonds.

 

Antique Wedding and Engagement Rings: Timeless Symbols of Enduring Love

Ancient Origins

The origins of the modern wedding ring can be traced back to the ancient world, where Egyptians, Greeks and Romans found pertinence in a ring’s simple yet profound symbolism. The pharaohs of ancient Egypt felt that the circular form of rings mirrored the cyclical and eternal nature of the world. Following the conquest of Egypt by Alexander the Great in 332 BCE, the tradition spread, with Greeks and Romans alike giving iron, copper or gold rings to their partners to symbolize devotion and commitment.
 
Fede Rings
 
Gold Fede and Gimmel Ring. Circa 16th - 17th century. At the British Museum.
 
Gold Fede and Gimmel Ring. Circa 16th - 17th century. At the British Museum.

 
Fede rings gained prominence during the medieval period, particularly in Europe, where they became popular tokens of love and commitment. Historically known as "faith rings," they are characterized by a design featuring two clasped hands, symbolizing the bond of faith and trust between two individuals. The hands on the ring serve as a visual representation of the pledge made by couples to remain faithful and loyal to each other. These rings often featured additional motifs, such as hearts, crowns or inscriptions, further reinforcing the sentiment of enduring devotion.
 
Diamonds Rise in Popularity
 
Renaissance Revival Diamond and Ruby Ring. Late 19th century. M.S. Rau, New Orleans (Sold).
 
Renaissance Revival Diamond and Ruby Ring. Late 19th century. M.S. Rau, New Orleans (Sold).

 
During the Renaissance period, diamonds began to gain popularity as symbols of love and commitment. Some credit this innovation to Archduke Maximilian of Austria, who gave Mary of Burgundy a diamond ring like the Renaissance Revival ring above ahead of their marriage in 1477. European nobility embraced the tradition of giving diamonds as symbols of both betrothal and marriage, elevating the gem's status to that of the ultimate symbol of enduring love. The discovery of diamond mines in India in the 18th century and later in South Africa revolutionized the diamond market, making these gems more accessible to a wider audience.
 
Edwardian Diamond Ring, 5.64 Carats. 20th century. M.S. Rau, New Orleans.
 

 

Edwardian Diamond Ring, 5.64 Carats. 20th century. M.S. Rau, New Orleans.
 
Edwardian-Era Diamond Ring. 20th century. M.S. Rau, New Orleans.
 

 

Edwardian-Era Diamond Ring. 20th century. M.S. Rau, New Orleans.
 

In the early 20th century, the diamond's association with engagement rings, popularizing the notion that "a diamond is forever"; Edwardian jewelers soon followed suit. Edwardian wedding rings reflected the prevailing fashion of light and airy jewelry, and often featured intricate filigree work and lacy patterns meticulously executed by skilled artisans.

 

The period’s sentimentality was reflected in the use of motifs such as bows, ribbons and garlands, evoking a sense of timeless romance and celebration. Platinum, the favored jewelry metal of the era, allowed for intricate detailing and provided a striking contrast to the dazzling gemstones adorning these rings, and many were embellished with diamonds.

 
Antique Diamond Ring, 6.69 Carats. 19th century. M.S. Rau, New Orleans.
 

 

Antique Diamond Ring, 6.69 Carats. 19th century. M.S. Rau, New Orleans.
 

Diamond rings continue to hold a prominent place in modern gifting. Commonly the cornerstone of engagement and wedding customs, these gems continue to embody timeless elegance and everlasting love.

Traditional Wedding Anniversary Gifts: Celebrating Milestones with Meaning

Wedding anniversaries celebrate the enduring love and commitment between married couples. As milestones in a marriage journey, anniversaries provide an opportunity to commemorate the passing years and reaffirm the bond shared by partners. The exchange of gifts, such as eternity bands, forms a significant tradition, symbolizing the unconditional nature of love and devotion.
 
Asscher-Cut Diamond Eternity Band, 6.81 Carats. M.S. Rau, New Orleans
 
Asscher-Cut Diamond Eternity Band, 6.81 Carats. M.S. Rau, New Orleans

 
Eternity bands, also known as infinity rings, hold a long-standing history as anniversary gifts. These exquisite rings feature a continuous row of diamonds or gemstones, symbolizing an unbroken and eternal bond between spouses. The symbolism of the never-ending circle mirrors the perpetuity of love and the enduring commitment between partners. As couples reach milestones like their 1st, 10th or 25th anniversaries, the presentation of an eternity band becomes a cherished ritual, further reinforcing the sentiments of appreciation and affection.
 
Traditional wedding anniversary gifts have been associated with specific materials or themes for each year of marriage. Couples can choose to adhere strictly to the traditional gifts or use them as inspiration to find meaningful and thoughtful presents that reflect their personal relationship. Here are some examples of traditional wedding anniversary gift ideas by year:
  • 1st Anniversary: Paper
  • 5th Anniversary: Wood
  • 10th Anniversary: Tin or Aluminum
  • 20th Anniversary: China
  • 25th Anniversary: Silver
  • 50th Anniversary: Gold
 
Other partners may decide in concert with gift-giving to engage in a renewal of vows, a ceremonial practice in which a married couple reaffirms their commitment to one another. By publicly acknowledging and commemorating the ongoing journey of their relationship, couples seek to reaffirm their shared history and create a sense of unity within their family and social circles.
 
Marriage remains a timeless tenet of modern life. Check out our website to explore more wedding and engagement rings, antique gifts for anniversaries, or to learn more about famous couples and their unforgettable jewels.

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